Archives for July, 2009
Monday, July 20th, 2009
Yesterday, it was time for my bi-annual haircut. I’ve been to everywhere from pricey salons to cheap haircutting schools and the end result is the same for me. The only difference is that I’m served coffee and sit in a nice, comfy chair in the former.
So this time I paid $14 for a haircut from a makeup-artist-turned-budding-stylist from San Jose. I’ve never been too concerned with my hair– I enjoy it’s presence, but it comes and goes. I usually let the stylist do whatever they want, as long as my hair stays long, because it’s hard to mess up trimming long hair. They always suggest that I try something “new” and cut my bangs straight across instead of corralling them to the side. And every time I agree and try it out for a day before pining them back again. This time when she suggested it, I thought it would be no different, so I gave her the go-ahead.
Three hours later I was sitting in a nice, comfy chair drinking coffee while my new stylist, Moises, surveyed the damage. I could see why people pay hundreds to have him cut their hair. He was able to re-trace my haircutter’s steps and pinpoint what went wrong, much like a crime scene. Basically my stylist cut my bangs too short, and it’s worsened by the fact that my hair grows at a funny angle so it sticks straight out because there’s not enough hair-weight to pull it down. Stylists are supposed to acknowledge this before cutting your hair, but my stylist hadn’t taken this class yet, obviously. “I bet she’ll never make that mistake again,” he joked.
I asked if he could borrow hair from other sections of my head, like they do with burn patients and skin, and he said at this point it’s best to just leave it alone and gave me tips to make them lie flat. But he evened it out so it at least looks intentional.
Now I look at every girl (or guy) with side-swept bangs with envy and longing. Even posters for the movie Bruno. On the bright side my hair does not poke me in the eyes any more.
Wednesday, July 15th, 2009
My knowledge of other states is limited to:
- Famous restaurants
- Popular fast-food chains
- Basketball teams and their key players, circa 1995
Friday, July 3rd, 2009
I’m torn between staying at work another year and enrolling in grad school this fall. A deferral is out of the question. It was the first thing I asked of them, and they said only in extreme cases would it be granted. Apparently, the economy being a clusterfuck is not considered extreme.
Reasons to stay in San Francisco another year and not go to NY:
- A good chunk of my stocks would vest. If said stocks vested, I could possibly use the money to pay for school and pay off my outstanding debt from undergrad.
- I love my job. I am excited about going to work every single day. And I would get to work on a really neat Flash project!
- I like my apartment. It has lots of charm and an in-unit washer and dryer.
- Home is but a 60-minute flight away.
- NYU is really expensive. I would probably be paying off debt for the rest of my life.
Reasons to go to NY and not stay in San Francisco:
- Outside of work, I am not happy here.
- I’ve always wanted to study something I enjoy, and the program I’d attend is right up my alley.
- It’s been my dream to live in NY. I’ve always admired it from afar and talked about moving there for so long.
- If I died next year, I would regret not going to NY more than losing my stock options (dramatic, I know).
- I would have to re-apply for grad school if I didn’t go this year, and there is a chance I won’t be accepted.
- I would be outside of North Korea’s Taepodong-2 missile range.
Advice?
Friday, July 3rd, 2009

I signed up my brother for 12 weeks of the Sunday New York Times so I could get this tote bag.
He is not aware of this yet.
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Hi, I'm Mindy. People who meet me and then happen to stumble upon my blog are usually surprised that I have things to say because I'm quiet. Yes, I actually have thoughts. I have feelings and emotions too, believe it or not. more ↓
People who know me will say that I’m loud, too nice for my own good, and show signs of someone with a mild case of autism.
I grew up with two older brothers and no friends, which means my childhood was spent bouncing between PC, NES, and Playstation games. I consider myself a casual gamer– I never leave home without my DS. My favorite video game character will always be Quina Quen from Final Fantasy 9.
Once upon a time, I studied abroad in Paris and loved it so, so much. I think about Paris on a bi-hourly basis. I now live in San Francisco, but hope to move to New York someday.
The name of my website comes from a Teen Girl Squad episode.
I love pugs, Kinder Eggs, traveling, and shy people.
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